Thursday, July 22, 2010
Are we really that Different?
Yes we are! The difference between a man and a woman that is. Sometimes I forget how different we are because we do have a lot in common. Josh listens to my womanly woes and fulfills a lot of that emotional need for me. However, I was reminded of our differences tonight as Josh and I were sitting on the couch together. He was playing a video game called Red Dead Redemption. It's a cowboy game where grown men get to pretend they're cowboys and gallop around a map of empty desert and tiny ghost towns and I'm sure they have missions of some sort. It's actually pretty cool and if they had a chick character I might actually play it. Anyway, getting to my point. I was watching Josh play and marveling at how real the horse looks in its mannerisms. I especially got excited when he slowed down and the horse started to trot and the rider actually posted a little to make the transition smooth. As I was exclaiming and going on about how cool that was, Josh rides his horse up to another cowboy, shoots him in the head, and then steals his horse. I stop short and my jaw dropped. It was so pretty I kind of forgot it was a video game. My response was: "what the heck, why'd you have to kill him?" His response..."Honey I needed a faster horse." Me: "So you just shoot him, there was no other option? You couldn't just kick him off his horse." Josh: "Nope, it's the only way and did you see how gray and sick my horse was? I have to ride to Mexico, that wouldn't work with a slow horse. It would take me forever" I started to agree with his logic, as long as the game gave you no other option, but still feeling a little sad for the cowboy that didn't do anything and was unarmed. Just after finishing our conversation, Josh rides up to his online gaming buddy, Josh's cousin's husband, and the first thing out of Josh's cousin's husband mouth is "I shot some guy and stole his horse so I could get here faster." Then it hit me...God really made men differently.